November 15, 2013
Marriage counselor and author Harley (His Needs, Her Needs) here has created a model for marriage that allows both partners to get what they want. Each chapter discusses in detail common sources of marital conflict (friends and family, career and time management, finances, children, sex), applying the policy of joint agreement (the idea that both spouses need to be on the same page) to each situation. Harley sets guidelines for successful negotiations and emphasizes making the process pleasant and safe and identifying the problem from both perspectives. VERDICT This title provides clear strategies for developing and practicing a win/win mind-set; recommended for readers looking for advice on marriage or relationships in general.
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